What Real Authenticity Looks Like

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I have to admit that I struggle with authenticity - but not in the way you might think. I’m not sure I’ve ever had trouble being myself or being real with others. In fact, the exact opposite is the case… and the problem.

I’ve usually taken the stance that if I’m completely authentic than that’s enough. The problem is that I can use the high idealism to hide a cynical spirit. I can speak my mind and write it off as ‘speaking the truth’ without being concerned of the ultimate implications for those around me.

My friend, Grant, wrote about this very thing last week…

Authenticity is not just being real for the sake of being real. If we only did that - would lead us to some bad places. In my less mature years (I’m not saying I am mature now…just more mature than I was…), I used ‘authenticity’ as an excuse for my immaturity. As in - “This is who I am, deal with it.” I’ve seen authenticity used as a weapon to hurt others. Not good. Not real authenticity either.

Real authenticity is being who you are, being real about who you are for the purpose of life change, spiritual transformation. No pretense, no guile - not to stay where I am but to move closer to Jesus. This understanding of authenticity is probably closer to James’ understanding of humility. We humble ourselves so that Jesus can ‘lift us up.’

I used to think this meant recognition. I don’t think it means that anymore. I think it means lifts us up to where Jesus is…in His character, His compassion, His mind. He makes us more like Him when we are humble (authentic) because He doesn’t have to break us.

Living in community requires a shared spirit of true authenticity - and it’s more than just “speaking the truth in love” (which many times weighs more heavily on the ‘truth’ side than ‘love’).

Posted 02.22.2009

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